My doctor increased my fears

[miramar33]

Good morning I hope everyone is well. I want to apologize for returning with the same thing after having practiced oral sex in a prostitute. But I went to see my doctor, who told me that I had to wait up to 90 days to get tested. According to him, I could have been at risk. I want to ask the experts and according to the time they have in this area of hiv. Because there is so much confusion. Why doesn't everyone handle the same criteria regarding the risk of oral sex transmission?

[CurfewX]

HIV experts state there is no reason to test following an oral event.  We cannot stop you from testing, but no one here is going to support the false idea that you had a risk for HIV.

[miramar33]

Thank you very much for your reply. But if since the beginning of the epidemic nobody has been able to certify a contagion through oral sex. If not one or another anecdote. Why don't they handle the same language? Now I really don't know what to do, I was trying to calm down but now I have to wait or not. What dou you recommend?

[CurfewX]

I would forget about this event and move on.  Many people, including doctors, are not very informed about HIV and HIV transmission.  I have nothing more to say about your no-risk event.

[miramar33]

Thanks you very much.

[miramar33]

But, what do you mean when you said even the doctors aren't informed about the hiv transmission? I'm trying to find a way to get the best information in order to multiple by it

[miramar33]

Good afternoon to all the members of this great forum, excuse me once again to annoy you. but it's already 8 weeks since you had oral sex with a woman of unknown condition. I choke on the symptoms and the fact that I have vih. if he had passed it on to my wife. please someone to help me calm down. or because if I try to be calm the symptoms come back as saying that if I have vih just because I've done a cunnilingus and I don't know how to wait at 12 weeks. A test at 8 weeks is a blunt result?

[Kirstie_MHModerator]

This is not an anxiety support forum.  Our members have given you extensive answers about HIV and have fully advised you that you were never at risk.

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[Chima7]

You've been assessed as having no risk from what you've described. This is not a guilt support forum. If you're unable to move past your guilt then it's your responsibility to see a counselor. There is nothing more that can be done for you here.