Should i be worried about kissing deep

[What1981]

Hi everyone
I am a male from India 31 years of age.
I went to a massage parlour today and took extra service of Hand job and top less from a girl. Which she was doing my massage I came to know she has everything on offer and offered sex for a price. Since I have never taken a full sex service ever in a massage parlour I declined the offer.
Anyways I told her to go topless and we deep kissed for 5-10 mins and she gave me a handjob and I came.
I am worried about a few things.
1) since we deep kissed for 5-10 mins I am worried about possible hiv chances....since she does offer sex to her clients so risky?
After the massage I spat on the basin to see if I was bleeding.....I wasn't....but then I don't know if she was bleeding or not. So what are the chances if she was bleeding and I came in contact with her blood in my mouth.
I am a heavy smoker so needless to say gums are sore n weak.
What are the chances of contracting hiv from deep kissing with sore in gums and possible blood exchange...we had really deep kissed for 5-10 mins.
Kindly reply....getting anxious.
Should I go for a HIV test?

[What1981]

Hello
I just saw white dots on my tonsils right now. It's strep throat I guess. Can it be possible I got this strep throat from my kissing episode with the girl??
Please help me calm my fears and tell me if I can get hiv. Pls.

[Kirstie_MHModerator]

Our members have already advised you that you had no risk for HIV.  There is nothing more to say about this no-risk event.

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[What1981]

Hello
I called the aids helpline in India and they said there is a chance of hiv transmission is the girl has blood in her mouth or if I had blood in my mouth. The helpline said since blood can get into the open sores in the mouth transmission is possible.
Now I am again scared. Pls help me.

[AnxiousNoMore]

Your country hotline is likely operated by the government who likely has HIV paranoia. If so they will tell you everything is a risk to absolve themselves of any claims later no matter how impossible it is.
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Anyone who makes the claim they gave you uses theoretical risks that have never manifested in 40 years, so likely they won't in the next 40 of your life either..

[AnxiousNoMore]

HIV is instantly inactivated in air and also in saliva which means it is effectively dead so it can't infect from touching or oral activities. It doesn't matter if you and they were actively bleeding or had cuts at the time either because the HIV is effectively dead.  
Only adult risks are unprotected penetrating vaginal or anal sex or sharing needles that you inject with. This sentence is all you need to know to protect yourself against HIV.
Even with blood, lactation, cuts, rashes, burns, etc the air or the saliva does not allow inactivated virus to infect from touching or oral activities. The above HIV science is 40 years old and very well established.
No one got HIV from touching or oral activities in 40 years of HIV history, so likely no one will in the next 40 years of your life either.
An HIV test would be a waste of time.
She probably kisses hunderds of people each week, any of whom could have flu or strep throat, etc that can be passed on, so she is the last person I would kiss.

[What1981]

Thank you for your reply.
So as per you I am at No risk whatsoever for HIV right? I don't need any testing for hiv right?

[AnxiousNoMore]

That question was already asked and answered.