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3170117 tn?1486831067

Skin Cut again

Dear All, I am so worried now. this is my story. Last night, I went out to drink with a friend, and we were drunk, then we went home, he sucked my **** for a long time, and I used 3 fingers to finger his arse for A LONG TIME, I assumed that there was some tiny tiny cut in his arse because i was quite rough and he said it was dry painful, then he also licked my nipples hard and actually he hurt my nipples, I could feel the pain on my nipples when I took shower,and he also finger my arse too, I could feel little bit pain too, so he alswo touched his **** and I also touched his arse, and all the mixed fluids( possible little blood, his pre-cum, saliva,sweat, all on cut my arse and my cut nipples, and this lasted for an hour, but there was no anal sex, just rough fingering, so what is my risk again? I know I should not have sex that often, but i just could not help, please advise me
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3170117 tn?1486831067
Thank you ,rain, I hope you are right......
Anyways I will go for test in one month's time
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It becomes damaged right away.It can't survive outside the body.
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3170117 tn?1486831067
But the virus is still alive in the the fluid,right? it can not die instantly after it exposes to the air,right? it is still inside the fluid, not isolated from the fluid.
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3170117 tn?1486831067
Dear Rain, Even the fluid or blood exposed in the air for a very short time and then he insert my anus, but the virus is still in it, still it can not infect?
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The reason it's not a risk is because the pre-cum has been exposed to air and therefore can't infect you.Relax and stop stressing.
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3170117 tn?1486831067
Dear Rain, thank you for your advice, but even with fresh cut in my anus and he fingered me for an hour with his penis pre-cum or whatever fluid on his hand, it is still not a risk?
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That doctor doesn't know what they are talking about.Find a doctor that does or listen to our advice.
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3170117 tn?1486831067
Dear Teak.
Thank you again for your reply.
But we have a doctor here who said that penis head could aborb liquid, he said if someone used somebody's sperm as lub to musterbate, the penis head would absorb the fluid and get infected too. it sounded very scary!!!
for my case, it is more than that, I do not know why I always have cuts when I have sex, it is very embarassing to say, but this is no joke,we fingered each other's anus for LONG TIME, not like a few minutes.......
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HIV is unable to reproduce outside its living host (unlike many bacteria or fungi, which may do so under suitable conditions), except under laboratory conditions; therefore, it does not spread or maintain infectiousness outside its host.

HIV is transmitted by;
Unprotected penetrative anal and/or vaginal sex
Sharing works with other IV drug abusers
Mother to child
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No risk,those fluids have already been exposed to air therefore making the virus inactive.
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3170117 tn?1486831067
Again, when you said inside the body, but still the sperm or whatever fluid must get out from one host and get into another host, so it is still outside in the air already, right? I am really worried.
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3170117 tn?1486831067
Dear Rain,Thank you for your reply again. what if some fresh fluid from his penis was on his fingers after he robbed hs own penis and some fresh blood on my hand after I roughly fingered his anus, then he fingered my anus and made it wounded, and i touched my own nipples after he wounded it too? was it a risk?
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You're wrong--HIV transmission takes place inside the body not outside it.
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3170117 tn?1486831067
Dear Teak. Thank you for your reply.
I have read your answers a lot, but this is a fresh cut and fluid was involved.how is that not a risk?the virus is still inside the fluid,right? it does not reproduce outside the host, but when it gets into someone's body, it will grow again, right? i am so worried
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HIV is unable to reproduce outside its living host (unlike many bacteria or fungi, which may do so under suitable conditions), except under laboratory conditions; therefore, it does not spread or maintain infectiousness outside its host.
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3170117 tn?1486831067
But there might be fluid exchange through the cut, I am sure there was cut because we both could feel the pain in the anus and I could feel pain on my nipples, it was real, no a joke. I understand HIV becomes weak outside in the air, but it is still inside the fluid which means it is still alive,right.
I am so scared now....
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There was no unprotected penis to anus penetration--therefore no risk.
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3170117 tn?1486831067
even cut in *** and fresh blood touched?
we finger each other for long time, and touched each other's penis too, there must be pre cum and whatever fluid
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No anal sex = no risk
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