worried big time help me - different scenario

[worriedafterbj]

Hi ddoctor.
Please help me in this regard. Recently I mean Saturday I went to body massage centre and ended up having blowjob and handjob.
When I asked her for that she said okay and went out and came. I don't know for what she went but I heard the sound of water falking .
She came and started blow job. She had her teeth removed and mouth sores and she was literally bleeding. I did not think about anything but went ahead. She gave me blow job for 3 min  unprotected. During she had some amount of blood and saliva which was deposited on top of my penis opening and also on mucus membranes. Also to note she had high fever and cold which she only told me.

Now am terrified and worried. I am virgin and getting married on 27 of this month.

Please suggest if I need pep or do I need to wait and test or do I need to postpone my marriage.

Please consider all the above points while answering.

[worriedafterbj]

To my first question you answer end no. Does that mean I don't need to test and can proceed with marriage? I asked two questions and you answerd "no" which is little confusing

[Edward W Hook, MD]

This is a repetitive question.  Asking the same question will not change my answer.  EWH

[worriedafterbj]

So sir just to conclude though if she is HIV pos having fresh blood from her mouth on my penis opening  and on penis head without contact with air, if the blood is on my penile opening still no risk?. I can go ahead with my marriage without worrying infecting my fiancée..?

[Edward W Hook, MD]

I understoond the situation form the orginal post.  No change in my assessment or advice.  No risk.  Thus:

1. Do I need to test and wait or proceed with marriage?
No.

2. Had it been you, would you get tested for this incident
No.

3. Has it ever happened?
No.

EWH

[worriedafterbj]

Hi doctor I am from Singapore. I had her blood and saliva both on my penis head, urethera opening and also mucous membrane. I saw it and just wiped it. Since the exposure happened inside the body that is from her mouth and directly on my penis opening without exposing to air and also blood contains virus, I just think this is one way of passing virus. I need little explanation from your side too.
Also need answers for
1. Do I need to test and wait or proceed with marriage?
2. Had it been you, would you get tested for this incident
3. Has it ever happened?

[Edward W Hook, MD]

Welcome to the Forum.  I'll be pleased to confirm what you have already been told on our HIV Prevention Community site.  Your partner hardly sounds enticing (fever, toothless with a bloody mouth !!!) but despite this, the facts remain that there are no scientifically proven instances in which receipt or oral sex (or masturbation by the way) has led to HIV infection, if your partner did happen to have HIV and it is unlikely that she did- most women do not have HIV (here in the U.S. fewer than 1 in 10,000 women have HIV).

My advice, like the advice that you have already gotten from our Community site.  EWH