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Hi guys,
I'm a straight male, 24yo.
I've been a guy that stick to hygiene. But last year, I gave my first sex to a "friend" from Internet. She said she's my schoolmate but later I found she's not. Another guy told me that she had had sex with many guys.
I used a condom from her during vaginal sex but the condom didn't seem sound. Later I found the condom was overdue..... Also I received oral sex without protection....
I have had jock itch since 2 months ago which tortures me a lot.. I saw the doctor and tried many ointment but it doesn't work. I read something about opportunistic infections from the net and think my jock itch is very similar to its features.
What should I do?
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480448 tn?1426948538
I agree with LL completely.  You never had a risk.
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So, all I mentioned still has nothing to do with HIV because I never had a chance of catching it? Is it all of you knowledgeable helpers' conclusion?
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186166 tn?1385259382
have no clue...this is not a diagnostic forum.

if you are having health concerns, continue to work with your dr to find the cause...it's NOT hiv.
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I want to not consider HIV but my symptoms just couldn't let me get rid of it.
I have a series of dental problems recently. My ulcers on my lips have lasted for 2 weeks, and part of my lips and tongue get swollen and red. Plus, my teeth on the left side are sore when I brush them. And my lymph swollen and sometimes aches.
As the dr said, all my symptoms point to a weak immune system. These year I've been experiencing many many symptoms that I seldom experienced before. They just come one by one or together.
If I am completely free from HIV, what could it be?
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186166 tn?1385259382
correct
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So even if I still go to the massage parlors and receive hadjobs only(sometimes maybe with scratches on my limbs/genital), I never have a risk of HIV?
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186166 tn?1385259382
hiv is transmitted through...
unprotected vaginal / anal intercourse
sharing iv drug works
mother to child

hiv is NOT transmitted through receiving a hand job
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Many thanks, LIZZIE.
I have another concern about HIV. I find a job and my boss often asks me to accompany our business partners to have massage in local massage parlors. The parlors are legal and their most dangerous thing I think is handjobs(the massage girls never take off underwear or have sex with their guests). I received hand jobs from time to time. Is my behavior playing fire and one day I may be punished and get burned?
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186166 tn?1385259382
you dont have to pour water in a condom to see if it leaks.

condom failure is catastrophic.  it basically shreds, exposing your penis.
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Hi Lizzie, are you still there?
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I really appreciate your reply!
But how to tell if a condom failed or not? I forgot to check if my condom had leaked by pouring water into it and see if some water went out through its tip..
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186166 tn?1385259382
being expired weakens the integrity of the condom and can cause it to fail...BUT yours didn't.

you are NOT experiencing opportunistic infections...you had NO risk
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thanks
but as I mentioned, the condom was overdue, so I don't know if it's intact when I used it. If it's not, am I at risk of catching HIV?
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186166 tn?1385259382
you had no risk...hiv is not transmitted through protected sex or oral sex.
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