Welcome to the forum. I'm happy to help.
The most important details in your question are your test results, which prove you were not infected. You apparently don't realize or misunderstand a couple of important facts about the window period (time to defintive test results). First, even with the antibody tests, for which the official window period is 3 months, negative results are virtually 100% reliable by 6-8 weeks. Second and even more important, you had a lot more than antibody testing, and the combination of your various test results is 100% conclusive at this time. In fact, you could have stopped testing, with 100% confidence in result at the 4 week mark, with negative antibody, p24 antigen, and PCR.
That said, given the advice of most public health agencies and other experts, I can understand your desire and perhaps your GP's recommendation to have a final antibody test at 3 months, which will make it official. But it really isn't necessary; there is no chance any further test results will be positive, assuming no new exposures. The two threads linked below go into more detail about testing windows, including an explanation why the official advice remains 3 months despite scientific certainty at earlier times:
http://www.medhelp.org/posts/show/1704700
http://www.medhelp.org/posts/show/1891685
As you have noted, I'm not relying at all (and really paying little attention to) your exposure history or symptoms. The HIV tests are among the most accurate diagnostic tests ever developed, for any condition. As long as sufficient time has passed since the last exposure, as discussed above, the results overrule all other considerations. Your exposure was pretty high risk (unprotected anal sex with a partner with a recent infection and perhaps a high viral load), but the test results show for sure you weren't infected. Your symptoms were not suggestive, as your GP said, but it wouldn't matter if they were.
So all is well. Even if you decide to have a final antibody test 3 months after the last exposure, you can stay relaxed in the meantime. There is no chance it will be positive.
I hope this has helped. Best wishes and stay safe-- HHH, MD