Unprotected sex/ w prostitute

[XtremelyWorried]

OK, this is by far the stupidest thing I've eve done in my entire life. Went to a bachelor party (not mine) an ended up having unprotected vaginal sex with a prostitute. We had sex twice, once in the jacuzzi and once in the bed. I did ejaculated both time, if it makes a difference. This is the first time I've ever done something like this. Actually, it was my first time with a prostitute. Not making excuses, but alcohol played a huge role on this massively stupid decision. Needless to say, I've been completely freaking out for the last week, can't even barely sleep. I'm obviously getting tested soon.

Here's my particular problem. After sex, I noticed a very small scrape on the tip of my penis, almost like a mild rug-burn, but NO blood involved. This usually happens to me when the girl is too tight. Given this circumstance, should I be much more concerned. When people refer to a "cut in the penis", do they refer to actual blood or just a mild rug-burn?

BTW, afterwards, the call girl reassured me that she was clean and was recently tested. Not that her word means anything to me. She also had bad dental hygiene, which is adding to my worries. Please help, any info would be appreciated.

[diver58]

First of all, relax and calm down, we are all human, bound to commit mistakes, otherwise would have been angels living in the skies.

Yes your risk is there, though not significant due to these couple of unprotected incidents with the same person. Though she said so, but verbal assurances have no value when it comes to such matters, here I agree with you.So this situation demands a test after the specified period of 3 months and I am sure you will come out clear out of this because many odds in your favor. But it is required for you to know your post exposure conclusive status with accuracy.

Never go for symptoms, and your mentioned symptom does not come under ARS category, however suggest you to get an STD panel run also.

Never drive a woman and a car when drunk,,,,,,, both carry huge risks  :-)  For her dental hygiene, just don't worry much, it has nothing to do with HIV transmission, because nobody contract the infection via oral sex or deep kissing.

You will be alright, just wait and get tested.

[LIZZIE LOU]

having unprotected sex puts you at risk for not only hiv, but other stds as well.

you can test at 6-8 weeks post exposure for a good indication of your status..but follow it up at 3 months for a conclusive result.

[XtremelyWorried]

Thanks for the replies. I'm obviously getting tested in 2 weeks.

So to be clear, should the "rug-burn/scrape" I got down there after intercourse be a cause for serious concern?  The whole exposure to a cut factor has me all freaked out, even though technically there wasn't any blood.

[LIZZIE LOU]

re-read the last four words of your comment above...

[medstudent987]

dont get exterrmly worried ,, although u put yourself at risk,.. hiv virus co concentration in vaginal fluid is most less than blood and semen.. and the odds are 1/1000 -1/2000 according to different books different views,as well as she told she was clean,and most probably she is clean..i.e no hiv no risk..
so just get tested at 6 weeks..and following at 3 months.. if u get6 weeks negative result u can be 90% sure that u didn't cought hiv..and also check for all stds as wells..
cosnult your doctor about which kind of test would perfable..PCR or ELISA..
best of luck buddy..and let us know the good news that u r negative...