Replies on the professionaly moderated forums are within 24 hours -- in this case, it was only about 4 hours after you posted your question. And that slight delay was the direct result of your insistent follow-up messages. Multiple comments after the initial question make it look like there has already been a response, and for a few hours both Dr. Hook and I thought the other had replied. (This is probably the same reason that you didn't realize until 15 minutes ago that I had replied 9 hours ago!)
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oops i just saw te response! ignore my posts! thanks!
sorry to continue to post in this doctors but i see other people are beng answered but not me? pls look at my post
just bumping so i can get a reply
it seems like no doctors are answering?
Welcome to the forum.
Teak is correct in his responses below. HIV is not transmitted sexually without penetration of a bare penis (no condom) into another person's vagina or rectum (and maybe mouth, very rarely). The superficial contacts you describe are risk-free, even if your partner had HIV.
As for the hepatitis C virus (HCV), the only proved sexual transmission scenario involves traumatic (i.e., potentially bloody) sexual practices among men having sex with men -- and even then, sexual transmission appears to be rare unless one of the men has HIV. As for HIV, the relatively superficial exposures you describe carry no risk for HCV.
Therefore, from a medical/risk perspective, you don't need testing for either virus. But if you need the additional reassurance of a negative test result, feel free to visit an STD clinic or other expert provider and request testing for HIV. (But not HCV -- a waste of money.) If you decide to do it, you definitely can count on a negative test result.
Best wishes-- HHH, MD
please?? sorry jyst anxious
Thanks for the info teak, but can i please also get a response from one of the doctors?
Not an HIV concern. HIV is unable to reproduce outside its living host (unlike many bacteria or fungi, which may do so under suitable conditions), except under laboratory conditions; therefore, it does not spread or maintain infectiousness outside its host.
HIV is transmitted by;
Unprotected penetrative anal and/or vaginal sex
Sharing works with other IV drug users
Mother to child
and sorry to comment so much doctors but one final thing i wanted to add was that at some point i think he did touch my penis with his hand if that changes anything
also, in my original post it blurred out what i wrote with "***" i had written another word for butt, so i was saying his penis touched my butt and maybe butt crack
also should i get tested?