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Hiv exposure

I am a first time poster and want to start off by thanking everyone on this page all of the info on here has really helped me out a ton. My question is simple I got drunk one night and called a sex worker, not something I am proud of. She performed oral sex on me with a condom and then rode my penis for maybe 10 seconds, I couldn't stay erect because I was so drunk, we tried again in the doggy style position and the same result after 7 seconds again still with a condom on after that she she performed a oral sex with no condom and gave me a rim job for maybe 20 seconds. What are my risks of exposure???? It was her condom and i did see her open it new and place it on me correctly, but durning the rimjob their was some discomfort. Maybe their was a cut in my anus from going to the restroom?? I am going crazy checking my penis constantly. I went to the doc 5 days after and he said that I was fine he drew blood and told me that my aids risk was less than 1% from the entire incident. I also paid for a rapid std test and everything came back negative, how conclusive are these results should I go back in a month or 3 month please help I have had reoccurring nightmares that the results where positive
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You never had an exposure period.
Oral sex is not a risk
Rimming is not a risk
Protected vaginal and anal sex is not a risk.

YOU HAVE NOT HAD AN EXPOSURE.
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You can get some sleep now that you know you don't have HIV.
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I have read through your profile an I have nothing but admiration for you and the help that you provide and know that you have assessed my situation and say that I have 0 risk
I am going to put my fears to rest and move forward with my life


Thank you teak
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All of them said that my risk was well under 1% for the oral sex and 0 risk for protected vaginal sex. They told me that rimming was also low risk but I never told them about the cut in my anus

I just want to know if I should be worried or if I should move on with my life? The cut might not change much but that's why I am asking you guys and thanks for looking past my ignorance and helping me
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If you have talked to so many doctors how many of them told you that you never had an exposure?
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The Anus comment and I really didn't know how to respond to not make you guys mad, yes I probably shouldn't even be allowed to access the Internet I feel beyond terrible

Truth is that I thought I was helping since I have talk to so many doctors, and hiv specialist. The place has been the only place that I have been able to find straight up answers.

Sorry once again
And I really hope I am not sick
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I don't find any humor in it at all and you have the audacity to answer other people's threads.
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I meant the closely examining the situation but I can definitely find the humor in my statement

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186166 tn?1385259382
you've been closely examining your anus?

WOW
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Before I hadn't said that their was a cut in my
Anus after closer examination I realize that their was I am just asking for help please do not ban me. I wouldn't be asking if I wasn't worried.
Based on what I have told you
teak do you think their was any risk at all? Even with the cut in my anus this will be my last post I don't want to upset anyone but I am going crazy
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Their was a cut in my anus
Do I need to get tested I am going crazy I have had a couple of random bumps pop up, my lyphnodes are slightly sore, no fever.

Could this be ars??? I am going crazy would that tiny cut in my anus be enough for me to contract hiv, she stuck her tongue in their and that is my main concern and I don't know if their was a cut on her tongue.

Someone please help I am going crazy is their any risk with this in consideration or am I being crazy? Do I need a test tomorrow please help  
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Sometimes when I use the restroom my anus bleeds a little I was just asking for that reason, although I have heard that it takes a lot of blood to transfer this way??
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186166 tn?1385259382
and exactly WHY would you be asking about things that didn't happen?
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What if their was blood in her mouth? Their wasn't buy I have read stuff online and what if their was tiny rips in the condom. I am sorry for all the questions I am just trying to cover my bases.
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186166 tn?1385259382
hiv is transmitted through...
UNprotected vaginal / anal intercourse
sharing iv drug works
mother to child

hiv is NOT transmitted through oral sex or rimming...whether that be protected or unprotected.

you had NO risk and further testing is not needed.
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The oral sex was unprotected and and the rimjob was unprotected
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5 days after I tested negative for everything also fyi
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Thank you so much! 5 days after it happened i tested negative for hiv. The doctor said that since it was not a high risk situation I did not need another test at 3 months but it was up me. Should I follow up its only been 10 days since all of this and it is so hard to move on I keep playing all these different situations in my mind
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Please help
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