You were not at risk for HIV.
Kissing is never a risk for HIV, no matter what.
Sexually, the only way HIV is transmitted is by having unprotected anal or vaginal sex. HIV enters through the urethra, so as long as the condom covered the head of your penis during intercourse, you are safe from HIV. You don't have to check the condom or fill it with water - if it breaks and exposes the head of your penis, you will definitely know.
thanks,CurfewX,you are so kind