Hello doctors.I have done such a stupid mistake.
Here is my story.I am male,heterosexual, 31 years old,I am married,I live in Romania,Eastern Europe.
On Friday I had a one night stand with a girl of unknown HIV status which I met on the internet.My exposure was unprotected vaginal sex.
This girl is white,caucasian,she is not a CSW.She is a normal person.She told me she has a boyfriend but I don't know if she has other sexual parteners.She did not say anyhting before I started to penetrate her.I expected from her to ask me if I have a condom or not.So my conclusion is that she has unsafe sex with any other partener.This girl is not a drug user.
3 /4days after the exposure I started to have the following symptoms : malaise,muscle and joint pains,which I still have now..No fever.No rash.
I am planning to do an HIV test as soon as possible.I would like to perform a 4th generation HIV test which here is called a combi test., at exactly 4 weeks after my exposure .
I tried to convince the girl to test for HIV but she does not want to do it.I think she is also scared of what she might find out....
The questions :
1.What is my real risk for HIV considering all this factors( exposure from woman to man,vaginal sex,she- not a CSW,white,not a drug user, and country-Romania,Eastern Europe)? Like procentual risk?
2. Are my symptoms HIV related?Could this be ARS at 4 days after exposure?
3. Is this test gonna be conclusive at 4 weeks or Do I have to wait until 8 weeks post-exposure?
PS : Excuse my poor English.
Best regards. Alex .