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I have a concern yesterday I was hanging out with a guy and he started rubbing his penis on my butt he was fully clothed and so was I but he was precumming so much. I could feel the wetness on my pants. He tried to stick his finger in my mouth but I avoided it. I asked him his status and he told me he was undetectable. I’m super concern about this exposure. I’m still in the pep window should I go to the ER. I’m just concern his precum got in my rectum or on my cut cuticles. I don’t know if he truly is undetectable but I’m just concern the precum seeped through my pants in my rectum and somehow he got his precum in a mucous membrane area.
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Your situation involves personal contact with an object in air ( fingers, maybe blood, clothing, semen etc.). You will be happy to learn that you had no risk, because you can't get hiv from personal contact except unprotected penetrating vaginal or anal, neither of which you did and you didn't share hollow needles to inject with which is the only other way to acquire hiv. Analysis of large numbers of infected people over the 40 years of hiv history has proven that people don't get hiv in the way you are worried is a risk.
HIV is a fragile virus in air or saliva and is effectively instantly dead in either air or saliva so the worst that could happen is dead virus rubbed you, and obviously anything which is dead cannot live again so you are good. Blood and cuts would not be relevant in your situation since the hiv has become effectively dead, so you don't have to worry about them to be sure that you are safe.
There is no reason for a person to test when they are safe. The advice took into consideration that the other person might be positive, so move on and enjoy life instead of thinking about this non-event. hiv prevention is straightforward since there are only 3 ways you can become infected, so next time you wonder if you had a risk, ask yourself this QUESTION. "Did I do any of the 3?" Then after you say "No, I didn't" you will know that it's time to move on back to your happy life.
No one got hiv from what you did during 40 years of hiv history and no one will get it in the next 40 years of your life either. You can do what you did any time and be safe.
HIV is a fragile virus in air or saliva and is effectively instantly dead in either air or saliva so the worst that could happen is dead virus rubbed you, and obviously anything which is dead cannot live again so you are good. Blood and cuts would not be relevant in your situation since the hiv has become effectively dead, so you don't have to worry about them to be sure that you are safe.
There is no reason for a person to test when they are safe. The advice took into consideration that the other person might be positive, so move on and enjoy life instead of thinking about this non-event. hiv prevention is straightforward since there are only 3 ways you can become infected, so next time you wonder if you had a risk, ask yourself this QUESTION. "Did I do any of the 3?" Then after you say "No, I didn't" you will know that it's time to move on back to your happy life.
No one got hiv from what you did during 40 years of hiv history and no one will get it in the next 40 years of your life either. You can do what you did any time and be safe.
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The other person is positive though he’s undetectable but I can’t confirm that. Will that change this scenerario?
No. All advice given here assumes that the other person is HIV+ and able to transmit the virus.
If you never have unprotected anal/vaginal intercourse with someone of unknown or HIV+ status, and you never share intravenous drug needles with other people, you will never have to worry about HIV.
If you never have unprotected anal/vaginal intercourse with someone of unknown or HIV+ status, and you never share intravenous drug needles with other people, you will never have to worry about HIV.
You thought there are 3 risks when the other person is negative? No, you can only get infected when the other person is positive, so move on and forget about this non-event.
@anxiousnomore but he is positive which was my only concern. Doesn’t matter how much he precum and how even if he had precum that touched my lips that wouldn’t change anything right. It’s still a no risk situation right?
One more time:
"If you never have unprotected anal/vaginal intercourse with someone of unknown or HIV+ status, and you never share intravenous drug needles with other people, you will never have to worry about HIV. "
Those are the only risks for HIV.
"If you never have unprotected anal/vaginal intercourse with someone of unknown or HIV+ status, and you never share intravenous drug needles with other people, you will never have to worry about HIV. "
Those are the only risks for HIV.
" Doesn’t matter how much he...." Reread about only. I'm sure you know the meaning of only, so you are just wasting your time asking if there are more than 3.
wouldn't the fingers in my mouth with precum be high risk cause the mouth is a mucous-membrane and he is hiv positive?
If it were a risk, one of us would have told you so in one of our multiple responses to you. Saliva has properties that inhibit HIV, and the precum on fingers - OUTSIDE OF THE BODY - would render the virus inactive.
It doesn't matter how much you think this is a risk. Thinking that it's a risk doesn't make it a risk.
It doesn't matter how much you think this is a risk. Thinking that it's a risk doesn't make it a risk.
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