Please assess my risk for HIV.

[Txc]

I made a bad judgement when hanging out with my frens and went to a massage place that also happened to provide sexual services. To begin with, the entire massage session (get in/get out) lasted only 30 minutes. Within that thirty minute she gave me a very light/ soft oral sex (only 30 seconds). Before doing that she cleaned by penis with a disinfectant/ alcohol. Then she put a new condom on my erect penis carefully after pulling back the foreskin. She then applied a lubricant on the outside of the condom. We had a very brief vaginal intercourse before I ejaculated ( less than a minute). I then withdrew n removed the condom making sure i didn't spill the semen. To do that I had to touch the outside of the condom which was in contact with her vagina. I doubt her vagina was wet since it was a short time. I might have touched my penis after discarding the used condom, though she cleaned the head of my penis with a disinfectant/alcohol soon after. Also made me wipe my hands clean with the disinfectant. The condom did not break at all. The rest of about 27 minutes she just gave me hand massage and breast rub. We didnt kiss at all. I don't know her status. Assuming she has hiv, could I have contracted the virus through the details I have mentioned. Please advice. Part of me says I m unnecessarily freaking out. Should I get tested?
I appreciate your advice.
Thanks
Tim

[Edward W Hook, MD]

HIV begins to die almost immediately (and therefore becomes non-infectious)  after leaving the body.  EWH

[Txc]

Dr Ed,
Just for my knowledge, it is said that hiv does not survive in the environment outside human body. Is there a number as to how long it takes for a hiv to die once out of the body?
Thanks

[Txc]

Thanks for relieving my worries Dr. Hook. The activities I described are exactly what happened, no more, no less. I really appreciate your comments. God bless you and please continue to help people.

[Edward W Hook, MD]

Let me be clear- there is no risk for you of getting HV form the activities you describe.  None!!!  EWH

[Txc]

Dear doc,
What do you really mean when u say it is statistically unlikely that my partner had HIV. Plus after touching the outside of the condom when removing it I might have touched my own penis. Could that transmit the virus? I m actually in a long distance relationship with a girl n going to meet her soon. Can I have unprotected sex with her? I have never been in a sexual contact except with my gf earlier and recently with this incident I mentioned just mentioned and which has been stressing me out.
Thanks

[Edward W Hook, MD]

Welcome to our Forum. The exposure you describe did not put you at any risk for HIV.  It is statistically unlikely that your partner had HIV but if she did, there is still no risk for infection.  Condom protected sex is safe, no risk sex and no person has ever been shown to get HIV from receiving oral sex from an infected partner (you can be confident that the condom did not fail as well- when condoms fail they break wide open, leaving no doubt that they failed.  Further, HIV is not transmitted from person to person on the hands so that you touched the outside of the condom after sex was a no risk event as well.  I would not worry and see no medical need to even consider testing.  EWH