He didn't have an HIV concern.
NO RISK FOR CONTRACTING HIV
I would get checked out dude if you are having swelling, it could be. But it could be alot of things
You never had a risk and do not require any testing.Your penetrative vaginal sex was protected and oral sex is zero risk period.Your safe.Put this incident behind you and move along.Your symptoms have nothing to do with your encounter.
You had no risk for HIV from protected vaginal/anal sex and no risk for HIV from oral sex. You do not need to test for HIV