You had ZERO RISK for HIV.
As an adult, the only risks for HIV are:
1) having unprotected, penetrative vaginal or anal sex, or
2) sharing IV drug needles with other IV drug users.
Oral sex is not a risk, and rubbing a vagina is not a risk. ONLY the two activities I mentioned above. Whatever symptoms you are having are not related to HIV since you had no risk for HIV.