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Worried, Tested two days ago need help to assess my risk
Hi All,
Pls bear with my bad english. To sum up the incidents which causes a huge load of anxiety to me, I was dumped by my ex gf last year for another guy, which I was about to marry, things turn so bad for myself where I was stucked between responsibilities in work(tough work!!) and relationship issues, and finally, I turned to CSW and+ massage parlours to get some time and pressure off for myself. I know it was stupid, that's y I never did it anymore..
I have been following this site for many months and you guys have been doing an incredible job, I'd really appreciate if you could help me to assess the risk of the following incident.
1) Massage parlours(many times): handjobs, boobsjobs nipple sucking and fingering.
2) Frottage(x1): no sex performed, but she rubbed her vagina against my dick in riding post. there were oil involved.
3) CSW(x7-All CSW from china..): BJ with Condom very brief, Vagina intercouse with Condom(chinese made condom- are they safe???), no breakage as far as I remember...I hope i am right..
What triggered off the whole anxiety attack episode is the last CSW encounter back in 30-31st Oct 2010, after i came back from my business trip working oversea, I was kinda befriend with this chinese CSW since my previous visit to her working place two weeks before that , and I brought her home for stayover once I came back from overesea.
I had two round of sex with her each lasted not more than 10 mins, and both with condom, the problem was that the next day after i sent her home, I only realized on I was tested for blood sugar with my right middle finger poked in a nearby clinic 4 -5 hours before our first sex on the night 30th Oct , and I used that finger to finger her vagina for around 5 mins...And also i have accidentally briefly used her toothbrush on 31st Oct Morning for 5 seconds after she used the same toothbrush 24 hours before.
I got so scared and symtoms started to appear 2 weeks later around mid of Nov where i started to develop sore throat with mild fever which latest nearly a month after i took 3 round of antibiotic medications, I used to have sensitive throat and I was actually suffering the same problem 2 weeks before my risky sexual encounter with this CSW. but i recovered within a week after i took some medication from the GP.
What scares me the most was that after I recovered from the sore throat by Mid Dec, my tongue started to feel sore and irritating and grew patches with white ring serounding the patches that comes and go even until today, which I have visited the GP and he said it is geographical tongue and he prescribed me with some antifungal med but it didn;t work even though after 2 weeks of medication.
So my second batch of questions are:
1) What are the risks of fingering a HIV+ person vagina with a poked finger 4 hours before the fingering incident?
2) What are the risks of sharing a toothbrush?
3) Do you think i am suffering from ARS based on the situation described above?
4) Is Geographical Tongue a ARS/HIV specific symptom?
5) Can I safely said that my tongue issues are not related to candidiasis since tongue issues doesn't response to the Antifungal medication?
I am really really really worried of getting a positive result next week and I really hope you can help me to assess my risks and the posibilities of me getting a + results based on my encounters and symptoms that i have described, since I also learned that condom is not always 100% safe eventhough wore correctly which added more fear to my anxiety problem.
Really hope to receive your early professional responses.
Thank you very much!!
Pls bear with my bad english. To sum up the incidents which causes a huge load of anxiety to me, I was dumped by my ex gf last year for another guy, which I was about to marry, things turn so bad for myself where I was stucked between responsibilities in work(tough work!!) and relationship issues, and finally, I turned to CSW and+ massage parlours to get some time and pressure off for myself. I know it was stupid, that's y I never did it anymore..
I have been following this site for many months and you guys have been doing an incredible job, I'd really appreciate if you could help me to assess the risk of the following incident.
1) Massage parlours(many times): handjobs, boobsjobs nipple sucking and fingering.
2) Frottage(x1): no sex performed, but she rubbed her vagina against my dick in riding post. there were oil involved.
3) CSW(x7-All CSW from china..): BJ with Condom very brief, Vagina intercouse with Condom(chinese made condom- are they safe???), no breakage as far as I remember...I hope i am right..
What triggered off the whole anxiety attack episode is the last CSW encounter back in 30-31st Oct 2010, after i came back from my business trip working oversea, I was kinda befriend with this chinese CSW since my previous visit to her working place two weeks before that , and I brought her home for stayover once I came back from overesea.
I had two round of sex with her each lasted not more than 10 mins, and both with condom, the problem was that the next day after i sent her home, I only realized on I was tested for blood sugar with my right middle finger poked in a nearby clinic 4 -5 hours before our first sex on the night 30th Oct , and I used that finger to finger her vagina for around 5 mins...And also i have accidentally briefly used her toothbrush on 31st Oct Morning for 5 seconds after she used the same toothbrush 24 hours before.
I got so scared and symtoms started to appear 2 weeks later around mid of Nov where i started to develop sore throat with mild fever which latest nearly a month after i took 3 round of antibiotic medications, I used to have sensitive throat and I was actually suffering the same problem 2 weeks before my risky sexual encounter with this CSW. but i recovered within a week after i took some medication from the GP.
What scares me the most was that after I recovered from the sore throat by Mid Dec, my tongue started to feel sore and irritating and grew patches with white ring serounding the patches that comes and go even until today, which I have visited the GP and he said it is geographical tongue and he prescribed me with some antifungal med but it didn;t work even though after 2 weeks of medication.
So my second batch of questions are:
1) What are the risks of fingering a HIV+ person vagina with a poked finger 4 hours before the fingering incident?
2) What are the risks of sharing a toothbrush?
3) Do you think i am suffering from ARS based on the situation described above?
4) Is Geographical Tongue a ARS/HIV specific symptom?
5) Can I safely said that my tongue issues are not related to candidiasis since tongue issues doesn't response to the Antifungal medication?
I am really really really worried of getting a positive result next week and I really hope you can help me to assess my risks and the posibilities of me getting a + results based on my encounters and symptoms that i have described, since I also learned that condom is not always 100% safe eventhough wore correctly which added more fear to my anxiety problem.
Really hope to receive your early professional responses.
Thank you very much!!
Hi Teak,
Does that mean I will definitely get a negative results this coming week?
I really need an assurance from the experts here..
The anxiety and worries have been driving me crazy since 6 months ago..
Many Thanks!
Does that mean I will definitely get a negative results this coming week?
I really need an assurance from the experts here..
The anxiety and worries have been driving me crazy since 6 months ago..
Many Thanks!
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