Please Help

[sam2679]

Dear All
I have been had a sexual exposure 1 year before .the exposure was sucking a woman breast for 1 or 2 minutes I am not recalling that there was any breast secretion or blood . and hug the lady with dress and kiss the neck.Please note that while hugging the lady my penis was exposed and touched her dress, also I kissed her ***** on top of her dress and kissed on stomach and neck there was no dress. I did test on 7th week Elisa , 7.4 week 4th generation , 8th and 10th week Rapid test, Rapid test also took from Hospital.they took my blood and result came back after 30 to 45 minutes. all came back negative and i thought everything is fine.but now a days my kids 1.4 year old and 5 Year old , every day they have body temperature high for some time like 10 or 15 minutes and after some times it came back to normal  , and elder one had mumps even she has vaccination against Mumps, I am worried about the HIV as i may be contracted HIV from above exposure and I passed to my kids , Do i need re test  or it is just getting paranoid.Do I need to Worry ? Currently I am in a place where I cant take test .thanks in advance
Please note that I haven't had any major health issue in this one year time period except one time I had high fever with platelet count less after 2 days while checking platelet count light increased and Dr Said it is just a viral fever , also six month before I had my all hand finger Black horizontal curves I consult dermatologist he did lot of Test including CBC but not did HIV Test and he said everything is normal and may some vitamin deficiency after some time black mark on finger went away automatically.
Sorry to ask same question in professional Forum , but I need advise from expert

[Edward W Hook, MD]

Th s is a repetitive question.  Ingestion of breast milk or secretions would not put you at risk even in the unlikely circumstance that this person had HIV.  When I said no risk, I meant it.  EWH

[sam2679]

Dear Doctor
Thanks for your assurance much reviled now. My biggest concern was did i swallow breast secretion or blood from any "wound " without noticing. and I Believe you an account on that part also in your Advise.

[Edward W Hook, MD]

Welcome to our Forum. I will be pleased to comment and to provide you with absolute assurance that the events you describe above (sucking a partner's breast, hugging with your penis exposed) do not put you at any risk whatsoever for HIV.  The tests that you had for HIV were done at a time when the results are conclusive and they prove that you were not infected.  There is no reason that you mention to have any concern at all for HIV and there is no reason that you have describe to have more testing for HIV

As for your children's fevers, I understand your concern- we always worry about our children and their health. There are many reason that children have fevers however.   There is nothing is your note or description that suggests that your children have HIV.  I would urge you to be confident that you did not get HIV from the exposure that you describe and to not worry further.

I hope my comment is helpful. EWH