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Worries about HIV / aids
Hi all so glad I found this site after searching for help all weekend, I haven't slept and lost my appetite completely now.
Basically Saturday night, 2 nights ago I met with a guy of a chat site. Basically we are both bisexual and agreed to meet. I know nothing about his sexual history / past / health .. Stupid I know.
Oral sex was given unprotected (both ways) .. I haven't any noticeable sores, cuts etc in my mouth and consider myself to be clean and hygienic. No ejaculation occurred either way!
This is personal but I want the facts out there so I can get all the help and advice I can.
He was then masturbating himself behind me and I felt his penis touching my bum cheeks and felt he was masturbating against me. I then felt a slight push and I pushed him back saying he can't put it in ( I haven't ever had anal sex) at the point I pushed him away he was already ejaculating. Now I don't feel like I was penetrated but when I felt with my fingers the area (my anus) was wet. He then ejaculated away from me all together.
Now for the question that has stalled my whole life .. Would this briefest of encounters be possible to pass on aids / HIV .. I don't even know if he had it but being anonymous I can't find that information out.
Since then I haven't eaten. Haven't slept. And have my girlfriend wondering why I am being "off" with everyone not just her .. I can't think of anything else and cried myself to sleep last night. I can't wait 3 months to find out an go through this til then !
Since the "activity" I haven't had any bleeding, there has been a slight itch now and then. An maybe the odd bowel type movement maybe a little more regularly .. Unless that is me convincing myself it is more frequent.
Please can anyone offer me any advice or help ..
Basically Saturday night, 2 nights ago I met with a guy of a chat site. Basically we are both bisexual and agreed to meet. I know nothing about his sexual history / past / health .. Stupid I know.
Oral sex was given unprotected (both ways) .. I haven't any noticeable sores, cuts etc in my mouth and consider myself to be clean and hygienic. No ejaculation occurred either way!
This is personal but I want the facts out there so I can get all the help and advice I can.
He was then masturbating himself behind me and I felt his penis touching my bum cheeks and felt he was masturbating against me. I then felt a slight push and I pushed him back saying he can't put it in ( I haven't ever had anal sex) at the point I pushed him away he was already ejaculating. Now I don't feel like I was penetrated but when I felt with my fingers the area (my anus) was wet. He then ejaculated away from me all together.
Now for the question that has stalled my whole life .. Would this briefest of encounters be possible to pass on aids / HIV .. I don't even know if he had it but being anonymous I can't find that information out.
Since then I haven't eaten. Haven't slept. And have my girlfriend wondering why I am being "off" with everyone not just her .. I can't think of anything else and cried myself to sleep last night. I can't wait 3 months to find out an go through this til then !
Since the "activity" I haven't had any bleeding, there has been a slight itch now and then. An maybe the odd bowel type movement maybe a little more regularly .. Unless that is me convincing myself it is more frequent.
Please can anyone offer me any advice or help ..
Thanks.
Wow
If Penalising concerned people who may have potentially life changing and threatening circumstances is how med help try to support people in these situations I wouldn't want to be a member or supporter of a site like that! sounds really harsh. I suggest med help change there opinion of this. There is a huge difference between "concern" and "spamming"
However based on the very limited of answers i was given I have from you guys, unsupported by non of your previous work history , experience .. then I will go on my way safe in the knowledge that anyone can cum on anyone's anus and not pass on the HIV aids virus ..
I will spread the word they hey ?? !!
Also another point to medhelp .. Give people's profiles a slot to put there medical background so as to not worry further any potential risk patients
Thanks for the limited help. Shame that all the words posted could have been more informative and helpful to the original post !
Regards
Wow
If Penalising concerned people who may have potentially life changing and threatening circumstances is how med help try to support people in these situations I wouldn't want to be a member or supporter of a site like that! sounds really harsh. I suggest med help change there opinion of this. There is a huge difference between "concern" and "spamming"
However based on the very limited of answers i was given I have from you guys, unsupported by non of your previous work history , experience .. then I will go on my way safe in the knowledge that anyone can cum on anyone's anus and not pass on the HIV aids virus ..
I will spread the word they hey ?? !!
Also another point to medhelp .. Give people's profiles a slot to put there medical background so as to not worry further any potential risk patients
Thanks for the limited help. Shame that all the words posted could have been more informative and helpful to the original post !
Regards
Thanks.
Wow
If Penalising concerned people who may have potentially life changing and threatening circumstances is how med help try to support people in these situations I wouldn't want to be a member or supporter of a site like that! sounds really harsh. I suggest med help change there opinion of this. There is a huge difference between "concern" and "spamming"
However based on the very limited of answers i was given I have from you guys, unsupported by non of your previous work history , experience .. then I will go on my way safe in the knowledge that anyone can cum on anyone's anus and not pass on the HIV aids virus ..
I will spread the word they hey ?? !!
Also another point to medhelp .. Give people's profiles a slot to put there medical background so as to not worry further any potential risk patients
Thanks for the limited help. Shame that all the words posted could have been more informative and helpful to the original post !
Regards
Wow
If Penalising concerned people who may have potentially life changing and threatening circumstances is how med help try to support people in these situations I wouldn't want to be a member or supporter of a site like that! sounds really harsh. I suggest med help change there opinion of this. There is a huge difference between "concern" and "spamming"
However based on the very limited of answers i was given I have from you guys, unsupported by non of your previous work history , experience .. then I will go on my way safe in the knowledge that anyone can cum on anyone's anus and not pass on the HIV aids virus ..
I will spread the word they hey ?? !!
Also another point to medhelp .. Give people's profiles a slot to put there medical background so as to not worry further any potential risk patients
Thanks for the limited help. Shame that all the words posted could have been more informative and helpful to the original post !
Regards
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Ok, I see I am coming across as someone who doesn't read or get the point. Really I do !
My only doubt was because there was semen on my anus hole.
So I am safe to bend over for any tom dick or Harry (excuse the pun) and allowed them unprotected to release there semen onto my anus safe in the knowledge that because I haven't been penetrated I can't catch aids / HIV ??
Still NO RISK ??
I have no further questions your honour ! Lol
Many thanks
My only doubt was because there was semen on my anus hole.
So I am safe to bend over for any tom dick or Harry (excuse the pun) and allowed them unprotected to release there semen onto my anus safe in the knowledge that because I haven't been penetrated I can't catch aids / HIV ??
Still NO RISK ??
I have no further questions your honour ! Lol
Many thanks
It was already explained to you how HIV is transmitted. No reason for anyone to have to repeat it. You did not have a risk.
Why ? If the anus hole / entrance is a mucus membrane? As read on this very site! Then surely if he was "HIV" positive .. And the semen touched my mucus membrane .. I am Still .. NO RISK ?
Even though he pushed against my anus (hole) when he was ejaculating / nano seconds before completely ejaculating ?
You didn't have penetration. Your anxiety is causing you to over think the situation and "what if" about it. No penetration=no risk.
You don't have an HIV concern.
You don't have an HIV concern.
Can anybody else comment on this please ?? Peace of mind is what I desperately seek lol
Thanks,
I was aware of the transmission possibilities, needles, unprotected penetrative sex etc, however I am worried sick that he began to ejaculate close to my anus an pushed against me as doing so .. Then continued when I pushed him away. Like I say, my anus was wet with cum, or pre-cum .. And also like I say I do have a slight itch
I was aware of the transmission possibilities, needles, unprotected penetrative sex etc, however I am worried sick that he began to ejaculate close to my anus an pushed against me as doing so .. Then continued when I pushed him away. Like I say, my anus was wet with cum, or pre-cum .. And also like I say I do have a slight itch
The risk of hiv is from unprotected vaginal/anal sex insertive, sharing iv drug needles and mother to child.
Thank you for such a speedy response. I didn't expect that !! :)
Can you just clarify what brings you to that assumption that I have no risk of infection ?? Thanks again !
Can you just clarify what brings you to that assumption that I have no risk of infection ?? Thanks again !
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