Am I infected? I recent just found out my ex cheated on me. And found out she had hiv. I got tested it came back negative. But recently I was drinking and had protected sex with her. During intercourse she became dry so I used my saliva to wet her. I feel so stupid but yet I still love her. Well after we finished I went to pull off the condom im not sure if it was broke I mean it looked intact because It was kinda hard to come off so I guess it was intact. Also while I was takin off the condom it grazed the tip of penis. I would like to know do I need testing? Also I dnt know if her being dry could have caused an small abrasion on my the shaft of my penis. Do I need testing? Help please..