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any hiv risk in non penetrative sex
hello doctor,
i am from india, i have always practiced safe sex, never had any unprotected penetrative sex, but had hand job at a massage parlour, and lap dance with a csw and jus rubbing , thats all. very few occasions in my life.
now , during sex with my wife on 21st aug 2013, my condom broke, and in next 2 days thats 48 hrs after that my wife said she has throat pain, feel like feverish, etc., i am scared , i thought of ars , ,
i am from india, i have always practiced safe sex, never had any unprotected penetrative sex, but had hand job at a massage parlour, and lap dance with a csw and jus rubbing , thats all. very few occasions in my life.
now , during sex with my wife on 21st aug 2013, my condom broke, and in next 2 days thats 48 hrs after that my wife said she has throat pain, feel like feverish, etc., i am scared , i thought of ars , ,
thank u so much ,
doctor, i know that this thread has ended.
really thank u for pointing my guilt, its made me get anxiety.
i will stop worrying and move on, no need for testing as u adviced.
thank u ,
doctor, i know that this thread has ended.
really thank u for pointing my guilt, its made me get anxiety.
i will stop worrying and move on, no need for testing as u adviced.
thank u ,
MEDICAL PROFESSIONAL
Nope. I already said HIV doesn't cause symptoms like your wife's.
That's definitely the end of this thread. I know you're feeling guilt and shame over a sexual decision you regret, but don't confuse that with HIV risk. They aren't the same. You really needn't worry.
That's definitely the end of this thread. I know you're feeling guilt and shame over a sexual decision you regret, but don't confuse that with HIV risk. They aren't the same. You really needn't worry.
thank u doctor for ur advice.
actually after 12 days my wife still has sneezing , running nose, slight sore throat ,( no fever).
any change in opinion sir.
actually after 12 days my wife still has sneezing , running nose, slight sore throat ,( no fever).
any change in opinion sir.
MEDICAL PROFESSIONAL
This doesn't change my opinion or advice. Let it go and get on with your life. This thread is definitely over.
one final reassurance doctor, please
my wife still has that throat discomfort, ( small irritation , not severe for 6 days, no fever)
since i dint have any risk , i should not worry even my wife gets fever , and all those ars symptoms, right . forget that condom tear.
my wife still has that throat discomfort, ( small irritation , not severe for 6 days, no fever)
since i dint have any risk , i should not worry even my wife gets fever , and all those ars symptoms, right . forget that condom tear.
MEDICAL PROFESSIONAL
Yes. HIV doesn't cause cold symptoms like nasal congestion, and doesn't clear up in less than 2-3 weeks.
That will end this thread. Take care.
That will end this thread. Take care.
good day doctor,
my wife is now ok, her symptoms have subsided , no fever , and cold also have reduced substantially in 3 days. throat itching also is better.
these are signs of some common virus . is that correct sir.
my wife is now ok, her symptoms have subsided , no fever , and cold also have reduced substantially in 3 days. throat itching also is better.
these are signs of some common virus . is that correct sir.
thank u very much doctor , for u clarification
u r right pointing that my wife has garden variety virus, she did buy some plants on that condom break day and did some gardening. as u said she is having cold and blocked nose, itchy throat and feverish ( no fever yet) .
now i am not worried since u ve said ars wont arise in 2 days. that fact made my mind clear .
once again thank u
u r right pointing that my wife has garden variety virus, she did buy some plants on that condom break day and did some gardening. as u said she is having cold and blocked nose, itchy throat and feverish ( no fever yet) .
now i am not worried since u ve said ars wont arise in 2 days. that fact made my mind clear .
once again thank u
MEDICAL PROFESSIONAL
Sorry, I misunderstood the timing of your extramarital sexual encounter. But it does not change my advice. The event 3 months ago was zero risk, so you can be sure you did not catch HIV. And as discussed above, 2 days is much too soon after unprotected sex for your wife to develop ARS symptoms.
thank very much doctor, actually the condom break was with my wife no with someone csw , i use condom to have sex with my wife . its the way we have sex, since i had few non penetrative sex some months ago i was worried .
actually i was worried when she had throat pain , feverish body pain etc , after 2 days of condom break, that she might have infected bcos of me, ( since i had some non penetrative sex , 3 months ago)
actually i was worried when she had throat pain , feverish body pain etc , after 2 days of condom break, that she might have infected bcos of me, ( since i had some non penetrative sex , 3 months ago)
MEDICAL PROFESSIONAL
Even if you had caught HIV, it would not be possible for you to transmit it to your wife two days later; it takes at least a week before the virus can be transmitted. In addition, 7-10 days is the minimum for onset of ARS symptoms -- so your wife's sore throat etc cannot possibly be due to ARS from an exposure 2 days previously.
You cannot read lists of ARS symptoms and conclude that having such symptoms means a significant risk of ARS. The symptoms or ARS are identical to those of numerous other medical conditions, most of which are due to garden variety viruses. That's what your wife has: a cold. It has nothing to do with your massage parlor adventure a few days earlier.
So no worries, no need for testing, and no chance of infecting your wife.
Best wishes-- HHH, MD
You cannot read lists of ARS symptoms and conclude that having such symptoms means a significant risk of ARS. The symptoms or ARS are identical to those of numerous other medical conditions, most of which are due to garden variety viruses. That's what your wife has: a cold. It has nothing to do with your massage parlor adventure a few days earlier.
So no worries, no need for testing, and no chance of infecting your wife.
Best wishes-- HHH, MD
MEDICAL PROFESSIONAL
Welcome to the forum.
Sometimes the title of a question contains all the information necessary for an accurate reply. In this case, the answer to "Any hiv risk in non penetrative sex?" is no. HIV is rarely if ever transmitted sexually without penetration of a bare penis (no condom) into another person's vagina or rectum.
More details following your follow-up questions below.
HHH, MD
Sometimes the title of a question contains all the information necessary for an accurate reply. In this case, the answer to "Any hiv risk in non penetrative sex?" is no. HIV is rarely if ever transmitted sexually without penetration of a bare penis (no condom) into another person's vagina or rectum.
More details following your follow-up questions below.
HHH, MD
doctor,
my wife took emergency contraceptive tablet within 24 hrs.
jus tell me,
1.whether any risk with me and any chance of me passing hiv to my wife .
2.do ars come that soon in 2 days after condom break
i am thinking of ars after reading the symptoms from internet
my wife took emergency contraceptive tablet within 24 hrs.
jus tell me,
1.whether any risk with me and any chance of me passing hiv to my wife .
2.do ars come that soon in 2 days after condom break
i am thinking of ars after reading the symptoms from internet
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