Ok. Thank you very much. Looks like the biggest problem is my anxiety. I had issues in the past with contamination issues and overcame most of it with professional help and have been in a stressful situation lately and it has resurfaced.
HIV is a very fragile virus, and yes, it isn't easy to transmit. Oral sex is not a risk either, nor is fingering.
Anal, vaginal sex, sharing IV drug works and from mother to child. Those are the ONLY transmission routes.
Isn't oral sex a risk factor? Also fingerings? Maybe it is much harder to contract than I believe..
NO, this is a no risk situation.
HIV is transmitted via unprotected anal or vaginal sex only.