dear all thanks for your replies, i have read the forums, really a great job done by you people...thanks a lot. ok let us come to my question, i had a erotic massage with a girl, were she take shower with me , a massage with oil each other, no sex, but did the foreplay with the girl, kisses, and hugged her naked, my uncovered penis was erect and rubbed her private parts without insertation, until now i never feel any symptoms, recently i had read an article about china hiv status, and started to worry and now very anxious, am i at any risk, i read some forums say risk for syphils, and herpes, how this possible, what about for hiv? can you explain me in detail....thanks again for your replies...