handjob risk

[sweetmichael777]

I am a gay guy,last night I met another gay guy n masturbated each other in gay sauna.It was dark I am not sure if his hand was bleeding or not because it was dark.I know that HIV can not spread by handjob.But I am really worried if his hand got cut n bleeding,is there any risk  for contracting HIV(when fresh cut blood contact penis glans moucose membrance)?Can Teak,Lizzie,Vance or anyone tell me. If can't ,why? very worried ,MIKE

[sweetmichael777]

deeply appreciated.I ever seeked a therapist's help.He talked to me 5 minutes and told me to take meds.what can I say?well,thank you,I will try my best to get over this fear.I do not want to live with it all my life.

[nursegirl6572]

Professional help.  These kinds of fears are pretty common.

[Vance2335]

Seek a therapist.

[sweetmichael777]

can anybody tell me how to get out of irrational fear of HIV?I know that all my fear are baseless but every time after kissing,handjob,sucking nipples,I feel nervous n fear comes to me.sigh,any suggestion to change my thinking?

[sweetmichael777]

thank you so much for prompt reply.My ex got HIV,I got phobia from that,5 years.I can't find my way out.I have been trying hard,just can;t make it.I still need sex but I am afraid of it,too.What a miserable life I have.I will think it over,thank you so much.

[Vance2335]

Why would his hand get cut masterbating you?

[sweetmichael777]

why?if the blood in touch with mucose membrance immediately from his hand?

[nursegirl6572]

Irrational thinking.

Yiou never had a risk.