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am married i have one baby gal ....

my problem more then one year before ..i had a protected verginal sex and unprotected oral encounter...ths encounter happen some frustration happen in my family...after tht encounter i came to saudi ...before i come to saudi in srilanka they done a medical check up including hiv...result negative ...and after in saudi also...they done hiv test result negative ....

after some time accidently an orel sex happen with a guy...(am the recever)..its about five mints
later i got some red pathes on my penis(2mm size).....i went to a skin docter he checked vdrl..only and says "there is nothing this is kind of fungus infection" he gave me some cream ..after appling the cream the patches going very slowly but still there ...and later i staret worry  becouse i went thru internet and saw symptom of hiv ...am geting same symptom like NIGHT SWEATS.. BODY PAIN...DRY THROAT.. WHITE PIMPLE ON MY PENIS TOP .. MEMORY LOST...WHITE TUNG...ONLY ONE RASHMARK ON MY FINGER....after i got these SYMPTOM i freaked out....and i went to a docter and i expalined everything....he took complete blood count...including suger and wbc.rbc as well (this test i took aftrer 58 days of the oral sex )..result wher all good hiv negative except alkalin limt was 179.......i dont no what is that ..

my wory is the symptom are still ther and my urine color so dark almost one month am geting urine like that , too much stress but these things never happen to me   ........plzzz tell me how  long should i wait for to conferm that i dont have an hiv issue ....one more confution on web site i saw  like if its negative we have to take other result again when the result says NON - REACTIVE ONLY WE CAN BE SURE THAT WE DONT HAVE HIV ...am extemly sorry to wast ur time plzzz helpme ....am  a good profomer on my work but now i cant even do my job properly   am really
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188761 tn?1584567620
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Anxiety is your problem.
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but am getting night sweat tooo much ..(with full ac)..and my one side of my ball is paining .....this things make me worry too much ...
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366749 tn?1544695265
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Ditto, what Mike has said. You were never at a risk of HIV because there was no event of unprotected vaginal or anal sex. Protected vaginal or anal penetration and unprotected oral sex does not carry any risk of HIV transmission. You are absolutely fine so stop worrying about HIV.
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188761 tn?1584567620
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Nothing that you described in the whole post despite of multiple incidences puts you in to risk of contracting HIV.

To sum it up, protected vaginal sex is safe sex
Unprotected oral is no risk.

You don't need HIV testing further, you didn't need one at the first place. For other STI related queries, the best place to post would be the STD forums.
Please seek counseling and move on.
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