I have to agree with Teak here. While I understand that nursing school isn't always the best at providing accurate info about HIV, what you're worried about is very obviously not a risk, and you should have been taught that.
You want a scientific answer? I'll help. HIV requires a few factors to be present to allow for transmission, with NO exceptions. If any ONE of the factors are not present, transmission can not occur. Two out of three isn't enough, all 3 (along with a perfect environment) have to be present.
ONE.....the virus has to remain viable, which it has a VERY hard time doing. The second it's exposed to the elements, the process of destruction of the outer shell of the virus begins, which would prevent the virus from latching on the receptor (T) cells that would lead to infection.
TWO....there has to be a sufficient portal of entry to allow for the virus to gain entry to the bloodstream by being exposed to certain mucous membranes that allow it, the urethra in males, for example. While the oral cavity is made of a mucous membrane, it's not the same kind of mucous membrane as say the urethra. You can read my journal about oral sex for a more detailed explanation about that:
http://www.medhelp.org/health_pages/HIV/HIV-AND-ORAL-SEX-THE-FACTS/show/1278?cid=68
THREE...there has to be sufficient amount of the virus to allow for transmission. This is why SO many low-moderate risks never lead to transmission. Even IF this was a way to get HIV (which it's not)....a couple drops of saliva would never do it. This is also one of the reasons most needle stick injuries don't lead to infection, unless it's a large bore needle that is grossly contaminated with blood.
IN addition to the above, saliva prohibits HIV.
Hopefully the above explanation sheds light on that for you. As a nurse, the ONLY way you would EVER be at risk for HIV in the workplace is if you sustained a SEVERE injury with either a large bore needle (IM or IV, not a SQ) or another severe injury involving copious amounts of fresh blood (think a scalpel injury in the OR). Transmission of HIV in a health care workplace is VERY VERY rare.
You will NEVER be at risk for HIV by doing your standard nursing duties taking care of HIV patients.