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PLEASE HELP WITH ANSWER I AM GOING TO DIE

Hi,  please help me with your answer! Sorry for my english it's not my mothers language. about 2 month ago i had protected  sex with a prostitute anal and oral (in both situations i was in active role). when i finished, i  took off the condom(At visual viewing it wasn't crashed ) But after that when i take a shower i noticed a little scratch or cut on the middle of my penis (i assume that she has bitten through it during the oral sex) Had I in this situation risk and if i have is it high risk ? I am very worry about it couldn't sleep and looking for symtoms  of hiv (after 1 month i had a seek) Now it seems to me that my lymphs have grown but i don't know how the enlarged lymphs look..I grow thin...
after 28 days i have made the STDs tests by the PCR method and duo hiv test -  all was negative.
I understand that, i have to make test after 3 month, but i'm very scared!!!  I have a pregnant wife, of course we don't make sex, but i am affraid for her and baby.

Now after 3 month i have a nightsweet is it ARS?

And after 3 months test if it will be negative - is it conclusive negative?! I realize that I have made a horrible thing, but i don't wont my family have a risk.
Please, don't leave my question without answer, i am going to die from my experience
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trying to feel better
thank you all ! ! !
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186166 tn?1385259382
you are NOT having nightsweats as a result of hiv or more specifically - ars.

you had PROTECTED sex and your condom was intact.  as you've been told previously, you never had a risk of contracting hiv.

FEAR IS NOT FACT ! ! !

this forum has nothing further to offer.  additional questions should be addressed on the hiv anxiety community forum.  a link is provided in the lower right hand corner of this page.  
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1563685 tn?1310402354
Again: forget all those symptoms because, like tons of other users here, they could be out of fear or another rather than by HIV.

You had no risk.
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my fear is about my started after 3 month nightsweets is it ARS?
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1563685 tn?1310402354
http://www.medhelp.org/posts/HIV-Prevention/HIV-Please-DONT-LEAVE-MY-QUESTION-WITHOUT-ANSWER/show/1440355?personal_page_id=1979433

Is this what you're fearing? If yes, you've been told you had no risk, therefore you don't need to test. Forget all those symptoms because, like tons of other users here, they could be out of fear or another rather than by HIV.
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it's not the same
i had a nightsweet's is it ARS? could it started after 3 month expose?
i am very very afraid to make a test
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1563685 tn?1310402354
Please don't repost the same stuff, otherwise you can get yourself banned.
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