Thank you for making me less worried. I feel so paranoid but I'm gonna try to stop thinking about it. but I can't look at my friends or family and thinking I won't be here after like 15 years. I was also having diarrhea for the past 2 days and that was a symptom so in worried about that now. and my stomach has been hurting on and off since the day after and my head hurts when ever I think about it. are these symptoms ?
Hey,
I understand your anxiety.First of, oral is HIGHLY unlikely to produce HIV. There is no HIV virus in saliva. Unless somehow he was bleeding from his mouth, and was able to directly position that into the anus, it is impossible. He used a condom, meaning there was no direct contact between your anus and his penis. So that scenario is not going to give you HIV. He also did not ejaculate into your anus, further reducing the already non-existent chances. There might be HIV present in pre-ejaculate fluid, however, swallowing this, would not give you HIV.
I must tell you, although anxiety is bad, your situation is not going to produce HIV. We do not even know his HIV status. I must warn you however that 20% of people with HIV do not know it. That is why condoms are ALWAYS a must. The only way you can get HIV is from an already positive HIV partner. However, even sleeping with an HIV positive partner will not DEFINITELY mean that you have HIV. The odds are usually 0.01% of contracting HIV with an HIV positive partner everytime you had sex!
Please do not worry. There are many people on here with a lot more high risk. They are priority. Good luck.