Anxious after a one night stand!

[andren72]

I am a bisexual guy who got adrunk at a bar. I was somehow attracted a 40something Italian. We bought drinks for each other and headed towards his hotel where we had sex. There was oral sex. He used condom when we had anal sex. There was no contact with his semen. I left his hotel feeling absolutley ashamed of myself/ I couldn't just figure out why I went out with a total stranger. Now I am panic stricken. Frightened to death about contracting HIV! I am not able to concentrate at work. I have booked myself for a 28 day test.
Please advise. Am I at risk?

[Vance2335]

From protected sex...no. It is not a risk.

[StressedAsian]

oral sex with or without condom?

[andren72]

oral sex without condom! he did have his saliva all over me as well inc. intimate parts! Hence the reason I am worried! he wore a condom for penetrative sex and came inside the condom,

[Apollo1971]

You still have no risk of HIV from what you detail. Saliva kills the virus. You may want to have a STD health check, that is the only possible risk you encountered.

[Teak]

Saliva does kill HIV, HIV isn't alive to begin with. It's either active or inactive.

[LIZZIE LOU]

"doesnt" teakie...watch those typos  :)

[Teak]

Thank you Lizzie for the correction.

[Hope242]

...he is wonderful at that, but he missed one :)  I'll fix it for Teakie...

[Hope242]

oops...I was thinking about the mistakes he finds in posts :) Not the typo mistake!

[todd30]

I'm not trying to hijack this thread. If I'm hijacking this thread I'm sorry and I will make another make a new question.. However In this thread It is stated that Saliva Doesnt kill hiv? I thought I have read on this forum a few times that saliva has enzymes that kill hiv?

Again im not trying to hijack. I'm just now very confused.

[LIZZIE LOU]

the key word is "kill".  teak is merely explaining that hiv is not dead or alive...its active or inactive.