I'm female, 25. A week ago, I found a broken, used condom in a shower. I don't know where it came from and it may not have been there very long. I handled it only enough to realise what it was and then washed my hands very thoroughly with soap and household disinfectant (but not bleach).
I know there's no risk from that aspect of the story. However, I then put on some rubber gloves (cleaning gloves, non-medical) and went back to the shower. Though gloves, I thoughtlessly had some possible hand contact with mucous membrane.
Can HIV stay infectious on your hands after washing with soap? Can it transmit via the semen-hand-genital pathway? I don't think my hands were perfectly dried at any stage. And, could the virus pass through standard household rubber gloves?
I know the risk is low, but my boyfriend and I have unprotected sex and I can't risk exposing him to that if there's any possibility.
N.B. Today and yesterday I've noticed a white tongue and tight feeling in my neck, and some nausea although I'd easily put that down to anxiety.