Respected Dr hunter,I am a virgin and a healthy male,last night my friends took me to a strip club and they made a deal with one of the stripper’s they knew that she would give me a handjob and make me ejaculate,I reluctantly agreed.i did not kiss her lips,I was just kissing her neck and her breasts,she made me finger her vagina,then she got on top of me,my penis was half out of my under wear and she started grinding on it,their was no penetration at all,I guess the front and bottom(the part from where we uriinte and the bottom of that part) of my penis touched her vagina but no penetration,then she gave me a handjob and I ejaculated.i read your earlier replies to people that hiv is not transmitted this way but I just wanted to be on the safe side.i am just scared that some of her vaginal fluid may have entered my penis when she was touching her vagina with my penis or the vaginal fluid on her hand as she was fingering her vagina and then she gave me a handjob,but I am 100 percent sure that their was no penetration at all.i am worried since last night and haven’t been able to sleep.should I get tested for hiv,I took a bath after half an hour with an antibacterial soap and I urinated? And I wanted to ask a question that is hiv spread by full penetration meaning that the whole of penis entering the vagina,which in my case is not true as I perfectly remember their was no penetration at all…again should I get tested for hiv?the only weird thing I feel since last night is a little burning sensation when I urinate,but then again it has happened before…thanks