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hiv concern despite condom
Hi, i'm a married guy. A few days ago I went to a swingers club. A guy's wife was giving handjobs to 2 other men, including me, and that is my first concern. 1) What if she had semen on her hands ? I couldn't see much because the room was very dark but that is a possibility. 2) Then she gave oral sex to me and we had vaginal intercourse. I wore a condom for both actvities. I'm not worried about oral sex. But during vaginal sex the condom slipped a little and i know the base of my penis was not protected - and the girl was very wet. So her fluids were probably in contact with the base of my penis - and maybe there were tiny invisible cuts, i don't know for sure. The head, however, stayed covered during the act. Does that put me at risk ? I had a test recently which was negative. Do i have to take another one for this perticular event ? As i said, i'm a married man and i don't want to put my wife at risk, even if it's a tiny one. Thanks for your honest answers.
Sorry i meant was condom protected sex is safe. But being in a "swingers club" is not a very good idea. This is my opinion. But you may get tested for peace of mind. If anxiety is getting to much. But if your exposure was protected expect a negative result.
What ? I don't get it. Is it a risky situation or not ?
What ? I don't get it. Is it a risky situation or not ?
Get tested for peace of mind at day 28 do a 4th gen test. Because irregardless of what people will post here your anxiety is getting to you. Condom protected sex is safe sex. But, in the future try to avoid this kind of events. Because this is like a "high risk" event with so many "high risk" people. Expect your test to be negative.
Well, any other advices on this ? I'm seeking peace of mind.
You mean it's a 100% safe practice, nevermind what the details are ? Do i need testing ?
Safe
The tip was protected. It's just that the condom was a little bit short (?) - it did not really move, except at the base. Any other advices on this ? Would it be relevant to get tested ?
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