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taken advantage of and scared
i went to a strip club the other night for a few drinks, well a few more drinks i drank very heavily, the stripper was flirting and talking about her kid, i have never been to a strip club before so i figured she was try n to make me feel comfortable and spend some money i didnt want a dance but paid for one anyway went to the back room. after about 5 min the stripper said she would be right back . well i work 7 days a week 12 hours a day and i was drunk and tired i feel asleep. when i started to come to she was on top of me i got her off of me at that very moment she did put a condom on me but im still very scared. i didnt know thats what happend back there and i have been losing my mind over this. the condom was intact when i took it off. plus the next day i look in my wallet and my money was gone. it seems funny but im scared i dont want hiv or any std that i didnt sign up for. i have been in a relationship for 7 years and me and my girlfriend dont even have sex. if i get anything i cant get married i wont do that to her, she means the world to me. i hate myself for putting myself in that position. i got tested 4 days later and all the test came back neg. i have anxity through the roof right now. whats the chances i have something?
9 week test was negative but my white blood cell count is at a 16 the doctor wants me to do another blood test
the drinking was all me man i know i made a bad decision no doubt about that. but i never asked for sex or even thought about it, i just put myself in a bad spot and i have to live with that. if i knew that was going to happen i would have never gone and i can tell you i will never as long as i live put myself in that kinda spot again its a hard lesson i had to learn.
IM still going to retest for a peace of mind and post my result. I hope you keep that perfect record. Thanks man I wish you the best
That helps my mind a little thank you it's just hard dealing with the fear of having something and not being the one who made that choice having someone take a part of me like that has been hard to deal with
I hope your right. If I could ask has any come back positive after you told them that?
i really never drink i was just trying to relax. i tell my girlfriend to never drink if she not around me in fear this would happen to her and it ended up happening to me. im not dealing with it very well i feel horrible, and not affraid to say i have cried alot about it.
me and my girlfriend are waiting till we get married to have sex, i want to have kids and spend my life with her and all that will be gone if i have something its like my life depends on me not having anything and the 3 month period is to long this happend 2 weeks ago. i thought this kind of thing only happend to women not men.
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