Thanks very much for both of your responses. The knowledge you guys share on this forum is very valuable, I will use it to increase my awareness of safe sex practices moving forward.
she wouldnt have been able to just reach down and grab it if it wasnt hanging out.
no risk
Thank you for resoonding, it is very much appreciated. I've read some of your other responses since posting and realize that losing the condom on withdraw is not a risk, obviously I will be properly use condoms in the future by holding the base.
I suppose what worries me is that I didn't see the condum "hanging out" or otherwise, i had no view because I was sitting and she was off to the side standing. I just know that when I said it was gone she was able to each down and find it quickly and said it was at her lips not in her. I guess shed have no reason to lie about that fact, and she was not worried.
With that said, had it come off during sex would we have known and or would she have had to spend more time to find it afterwards?
You never had an exposure. Next time hold on the base of the condom before withdrawing your penis.