had sex with others before i got married over 9 years ago. Started feeling bad lately, lost weight, tired, hot feeling in the neck and armpits for the last 2 weeks. I just sent my test in, I am a nervious wreck since it started and have a hard time sleeping at night. Could these signs be from being so nervious? If it came back positive, would treatment make me sick that I can't keep my job and lose my house?