My father had bypass and valve replacement surgery on friday. They kept him sedated and on heart pump til wednesday, saying his blood pressure was too low and needed to make his heart stronger before allowing him to wake up.
He was allowed to wake up on Thursday and they took the ventilator out on Thursday afternoon.
On that Thursday and now Friday and Saturday, he is acting like a little child. he talks like a 3 year old, and doesn't remember alot of things from right before the surgery. Not sure yet if he remembers other things, that's just as far as we've gotten.
I am asking the hospital what is going on and they just say sometimes this happens from the medication sometimes. They have reduced the medication alot and yesterday he didnt have any for 12 hours or more.
The nurses and doctor are talking about moving him to a step down unit.
My mom doesnt know who this person even is. he repeats himself over and over and uses words like "doggie" and "poopie" etc. He is 64 and I have never ever heard him speak like this.
Also, he is a bit demanding of the nurses which i have never seen. For the past 20 years of bypass surgeries, stints, balloons, COPD, and liver problems, he has always been extremely respectful to the nursing staff, always telling them how great they are. He asks them the same questions over and over again.
He asks if he was bad, did he do something wrong, can he go home.
The hospital says hopefully it's the medication and he will return to normal over time.
I asked if he had a stroke and they said no.
Has anyone ever experienced this after surgery?
he was kept sedated for 5 days longer than planned and his oxygen levels have been low the whole time.
Please answer, my mother is so upset and i live 6 hours from them and just dont know what to do to help. i need to go back to work and can only come on the weekends. If he is going to need lots of care im going to need to move closer to them.