The usual standard is 70% or greater should be stented if there are symptoms in the patient, regardless of medication. It isn't just the size of the blockage, there is a risk of serious problems if that 80% blockage ruptures into the artery. Think how much soft plaque there is under that calcified plaque, filling across 80% of your artery and you don't want that let loose into your blood stream. I am wondering when your Doctor considers a blockage is large enough for intervention, perhaps he is waiting for you to have a 100% blockage and a heart attack. You obviously have a blockage, the blockage is obviously growing and is now 80 %. The rate of growth is unknown, all we know is that it wasn't there 7 years ago. It could have started last year or the year before, nobody has the visual history to tell.
I would go for a second opinion. I would also be asking about the 70% in the RCA.
It sounds like you have a lot going on there, and I would want a second opinion. I'm no expert, but it seems like there is just too much to not intervene somehow. Sometimes another doctor can offer a different treatment perspective. Good luck to you.