You sound like I did when I was diagnosed after the birth of my 3rd child. Except I also have anxiety/depression. When my iron levels are normal, I still get the symptoms you describe, so it is confusing. Just wanted to know you aren't alone.
i have similar symptoms with low blood pressure (i don't have anemia; was just tested). are you taking iron supplements? that is a good way to fix that problem. also, if you're a vegetarian, it's very easy to become anemic.
Your symptoms indeed sound like what can be caused by anemia. What are you doing to treat the anemia?
There's nothing in your post about a heart rhythm problem, the main area of experience of the members of this community. But, maybe someone will read you post that can some shared experiences.