Women with no libido

[ramnathvp]

HI,

I've been married for 12 yrs now with a 10 yr old son.
After my son was born, my wife refuses to have a physical relationship with me.  I've tried all ways - counselling and what not.  She just doesnt feel like it.  She's a celebrity in the field of arts.

I've been committed to my wife and never cheated her - but now it's getting frustrating.

Can anyone tell me if this behaviour of my wife is a normal or abnormal behaviour?
Do women lose interest in sex after childbirth?

Help me pls !!

[Jacob43]

LOL!  

On a serious note, we can smile because he more than like found the correct forum since no follow up response.

(I'm going to remember that one tho R G)

[Marc1955]

Just as this thread is mercifully falling off the list, someone decides to make a joke. Could we please let this die now?

[R Glass]

If she is a heavy sleeper, just wait until she goes to sleep.

[konyha]

There are several threads similar to your question on the Mens Health Form

You might want to cut and paste your post here:

http://www.medhelp.org/forums/show/93

[Jacob43]

this is a hepatitis forum.  there may be another forum for your question.  you will have to browse the forums.

I'll venture a guess on the question and I may be totally off base.  The best thing to do is ask your wife why.  That said, since her libido suddenly stopped at the birth of your son 10 years ago, perhaps she questioning her own sexuality (heterosexuality).  It doesn't make sense that she has no desire to have a physical relationship with you, and that it terminated ONLY upon the birth of your son.  I'm assuming since you've remained together since the birth of your child (10 years ago), that she has performed the duties of motherhood?  I'm just throwing things out here.. and maybe that is not so good - the best thing to do would be to encourage her to seek counseling with you.  I wish you the very best.  But like I said, this is not the forum for this.  Good luck