I've run a few political forums in my time and finally got tired of it all and shut em down. I don't see any of the major problems that I experienced, here. My largest had close to 1000 members and generally around 50 or so online at any given time. This was at the height of post 911 mania, so that was expected. I got so many emails threatening to sue me I got tired of it.
My experience here, mostly reading, is the people are civil and chocked full of info, but IF I do post I'll be damned if I care what some self appointed board cop thinks of what I have to say. Not calling anyone out here personally, I'm simply stating it's not anyones role to state ANYTHING about the worthiness of someones rantings unless it's just waaaaay out of bounds. In that case, you contact management.
As I stated in my first post I am into sports and spend a great deal of time on sports forums and some on political sites where flame wars and establishing dominance and 'ruining' posters is SOP, part of the game. This is not what this is. This is about my LIFE, which I take a tad more serious than football. ( wait a minute let me think about that.....) yeah, this is more serious.
Because of that, I wouldn't treat this place like I would the ESPN Big XII football forum, where hatred and namecalling IS the entire POINT of it all. No need for pissing contests here. I don't know about you, but I'm trying to stay alive, not win a national championship. And within that even, my participation on the ESPN forum isn't gonna get my team a single yard against Ohio State or Oklahoma. Nor will getting into a pissing contest here lower my viral load.
We all have the same goal here. That's what's important.
I thank you all for your support, though you may not be aware that you have given it to me. Keep up the good work.
Good Luck !!
Good grief! Please, let's not loose the good folks that make such inportant comments to a few negative people! I don't often have much to contribute and my weekends are often spent with hubby. It pains me to come back on Monday and see the bickering. I would much prefer those who are mean spirtited take a break. Lori
Jim, congratulations on your 'cold'! Thank you for all the energy you've given us. If you take a break for yourself, have a good one. Know you will be missed by Lori.
I am not sure what I have missed around here, but I just want to reiterate how important each and every perspective is to this forum. You are all amazing people in your own way and contribute differently to the forum. It is sad that ANYONE feels like they can't post here for any reason. It is certainly not how MH is meant to be. I hope no one disappears permanently from here!
Sure, perhaps the whole email thing isn't a bad idea. lindacal at sbcglobal dot net. Where do you live anyway?
I would enjoy keeping in touch with you, let me know if that is a possibility.
Diana
I understand. I know I can't take the negativity either. This whole chain of events has me questioning why I come here. Even when we try to keep our sides of the street clean, so to speak, we get hit.
I thought maybe things would pass yesterday and I see they aren't. Perhaps I need a break too.
What is it? A full moon?