Note from Charm

[Deb_c430]

all
From Charm,  another victim of this malice,    she is ok with me sharing this,   this forum has lost two good friends.

I CANT GO BACK ANYMORE.....I DO THANK THEM ALL IT WAS VERY TOUCHING....I TRULY SHED A TEAR
BUT I CANT READ PEOPLE GETTING CURSED AND TRASHED ON A HEALTH FORUM WHEN A 26 YEAR OLD KID IS GOING IN FOR A TP. I WONT BE PART OF THE EVIL, EVEN THOUGH 70% OF THE PEOPLE ARE GREAT.
ITS MY PERSONALITY...I JUST CANT IT FREAKS ME OUT TO MUCH.

IF YOU WANT YOU CAN THANK THEM, IF YOU DONT ITS OK TOO.
ONE HEART FEELS ANOTHER IF YOUHAVE A HEART, THEY KNOW I MEANT WELL AND WISH THEM ALL GOOD THINGS.

I JUST FEEL MORE THAN THE AVERGAE PERSON DOES AND IT HITS ME AND HURTS ME HARD.
I FEEL OTHERS PAIN.
PLEASE UNDERSTAND.HOWEVER WHEN YOU BELONG TO A HEALTH FORUM WE SHOULD NOT KNOW THE WORD 'HATE"
WE SHOULD KNOW THE WORDS, HEALING, SUPPORT AND LOVE, AND KINDESS.  NOT THE BOT THATS GOING IN FOR A LIFE SAVING TP IS A FAT PIG!!  IM AWARE THESE PEOPLE DONT HAVE A CONSCIOUS OR A SOUL, IM NOT A STUPID PERSON I SHOULD IGNORE IT. I CANT.

EVERYONE IS RIGHT A FEW PEOPLE CANT RUIN A FORUM WE SHOULD IGNORE. I JUST CANT ITS NOT IN ME
I MUST STAY AWAY FROM THE EVIL. I AM STUBBORN YES..BUTS ITS WHAT I BELIEVE IN.

HOW DARE CHILDS SON A WONDERFUL HUMAN BEING GOING THRU A MAJOR LIFE CRISIS GET KNOCKED LIKE THIS. THESE PEOPLE SHOULD BE HUNG AS FAR AS IM CONCERNED.
SORRY FOR BEING SO DRAMATIC, I HAVE NO TOLERANCE FOR EVIL, STUPIDITY, AND I AM SICKENED AS TO WHAT IVE READ.

I AM JUST MUCH MUCH MORE SENSITIVE THAN OTHERS I IMAGINE.
AND LIKE I SAID AGAIN I DONT KNOW WHERE I WOULD BE IF IT WERENT FOR THE SUPPORT I RECEIVED ON THE FORUM.

JUST CANT BE A PART OF IT ANYMORE...THE SOUND OF THE HATRED MAKES ME PHYSICALLY ILL.
I COME HERE FOR PEACE, AND HEALING, LIKE EVERYONE ELSE, I CANNOT HELP THE WAY THIS HAS AFFECTED ME.
NO MORE.
LOVA YA DEB
YOUR A HUMAN BEING IN EVERY SENSE OF THE WORD
THANK YOU FOR UNDERSTANDING WHO I AM AND WHAT IBELIEVE IN.

I came today with every intention of also leaving, quietly, seeing this happen to elaine now, i will stay and fight for her.

[Marcia2202]

That is very beautifully and wisely said.

Marcia

[HectorSF]

When I first started tx I found this forum and Charm was the first one to send me a note and welcome me here. I always have remembered that. I've always liked her positive vibe.

I'm sorry that all the negativity has gotten to her. But I want her to take care of herself first. Whatever she has to do to be good to herself, feel safe and peaseful. If she feels stronger in time and feels like she can take on the negativity then that will be great. She is working her tx and we all know what a strain that be can. Who needs additional stress?

We will all miss her.
Hopefully we will be a little more kind towards our fellow human beings because of this.

Hector

[Marcia2202]

I'm also new here. And I was not online yesterday when all this happened, because of the time difference (Europe). But I do join the others in asking you to reconsider. Please come back. We will watch out for each other. I am sending you my warmest thoughts.
Marcia

[rita863]

please dont leave, i am a newbie i need you guys.  i dont know if i would have went this far (19 weeks) without you!  Elain has always said kinds things to me.  Charm you have helped me before too.  

Hey GUYS WE NEED ALL OF YOU!!

RITA

[jools57]

I agree, you are needed here. Do not let the mean spirit of others drive you away. You are loved, and Elaine, and Nick, and myself, and many others here need loving, caring people like you on this forum.

[gauf]

People must not bail! Think of all those who come after us! We owe to them to hang in here!

[mikesimon]

Yes, please do come back. You are an asset here and you should not allow yourself to be driven off. Think it over a little longer. Unlike my approach, sometimes a little more reflection is the better way to go. Mike

[nygirl7]

Come back - don't let them WIN this way.  What that group of people is doing is so incredibly wrong and hateful it blows my mind.  Nobody can really believe what is going on and how many people have been affected by them and their self righteous bigotry.

Please Charm.............just come back on and only read threads from people you know are good and decent and loving.  Don't let their HATRED win!

Remember YOU need this forum TOO.  Just like Elaine does.  Just like I did and we do and all of it!

We're a TEAM and a FAMILY dont let the meanspirited hatred of three or four individuals ruin it for ALL OF US.  When you leave............................we lose out too.
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**This is just an unbelievable nightmare and we have to fix it.  The people at MH are not** **stupid or heartless they WILL see what is really going on and they'll take care of it.**
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have faith!