It's not unusual for a newly acquired hsv1 oral infection to involve the inside of the mouth and the throat. Recurrences are almost always just on the lip, nose and chin area and not inside the mouth.
Have you seen your provider again for further evaluation?
grace
Grace are there various degrees of HSV 1 infections in the mouth area? Can you have it only on the lips? Then get infected inside of the mouth? Then in extreme cases have it spread into the throat? Or is it an all or nothing infection deal? I keep thinking that I originally only had a minor lip infection and thanks to this new girlfriend my ENTIRE mouth is now infected!! Please advise!!!
sorry - missed the no coughing and such details in your post but regardless my final point is what's important - many viruses out there that have absolutely nothing to do with herpes that are more likely what is going on here. it's coxsackie season for starters as well as many, many other culprits out there. You won't get a repeat primary of hsv1. You don't have to stop seeing this gal because of this. You swapped spit, you got germs, happens all the time .
grace
Uper respiratory infection? With no cough or sore throat and a totally inflamed mouth, gums and toungue????
Probably what happened is that you caught a viral upper respiratory infection. Very common this time of the year.
You already had hsv1 so you wouldn't get it "worse" or get a primary again. You were already protected.
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