I recently had unprotected sex with someone I have been dating. He was very rough down below, I bled and tore the area below the vagina and was raw and irritated. Within 48 hrs I started to itch, which felt like a yeast infection. I have gotten them in the past after sex. That night...I itched myself in my sleep and woke up with a one inch tear down the outside of my labia ( the sensetive area) and had scratched my clitoris which was now raw. The next night, not even 3 days later I went to one of those slumber partys for woman and tried a cream down below that is suppose to do something to your blood vessels? Anyway, got home and felt more raw because of that cream so got a mirror and noticed a raw open looking sore under my clitoris hood. I didnt itch, and only hurt when touched and my clitoris was red and inflamed. I also noticed the tear had become more inflamed. I then decided to self treat for yeast and applied yogurt to my vagina. The next day I looked again and there was now a white spot ( almost like a canker sore ) under the clitoris off to the side. ( I have gotten spots similiar in the past and was both swabbed and given hsv igg type specific test and all negative, was told possibly dermatitis ) . Its now been a week since I had sex. The clitoris looks like it is starting to heal, the white sore ( which has never been sore or itched ) is still there and the cut looks infected. I have no swollen lymph nodes, no flu like symptoms, no pain anywhere else. Nothing is giong on inside my vagina..I have looked. The only time i feel pain is when I urinate and urine gets in the tear. Nothing has really itched since the first 48 hrs. Can this be herpes? Note...I have not had sex since testing negative for both...this is my first sexual partner since. A yeast infection? Im scared :( .