Hi. I've recently been diagnosed with genital herpes. Though disheartening, this didn't come as a shock to me because my fiancé has had it since before we met. We've been together for two years and have taken all precautionary measures to avoid transmission. I guess the odds finally beat us. I started taking Valtrex six days ago. Two days ago I felt my mouth tingling and my lips started to twitch. I found that the sores were in my mouth as well. I have already done a great deal to accept this as reality for myself but I'm driving myself crazy thinking about the possible consequences of being around my children at this time. I can't stop thinking about the events of the day leading up to my tongue sores. I ate off of a spoon that my son was eating cereal with. He didn't eat off of it until a minute or so later, but he also was drinking out of my cup that morning. On top of that, I kiss my children a lot. I'm still in love with their little hands and feet. He is four and crawls in my bed every morning. Since I found the sores, I have done everything I can to keep my mouth and hands away from them.. But the first day is what scares me the most. I read that the virus is most contagious when the bumps are still forming. Today my son developed a small red dot about a half inch below his bottom lip. It looks very similar to the ones that I had. I plan on taking him to his doctor first thing in the morning, but for now I cant sit still. I cant think about anything else. I am interested in hearing about others experience with this, and if anyone knows anything about transmitting this to a child. My heart broke today when I saw that bump, as it is all I have thought about for days. I can't get over this awful feeling. This isn't something I had anticipated. My fiancé never had an outbreak since we've been together.. And has never once had an oral infection. Please shed some light on me... I'm deathly afraid that I have my child something that I can never take back. He's the greatest love of my life.