Hello,
Firstly, thanks to those who are offering advice and input on this forum.
I'm a 43 year old male, no prior STD history. In good health overall with a long history of being safe with sex.
About 6 days ago I had what amounted to single sexual encounter with a female whom I'd met a day before. We used condoms, and both communicated that we each had no std's. However, a condom tore, and about half of this encounter was unsafe.
Literally about 36 hours later I had general mild burning and redness in the groin, mostly the entire scrotum. Not much itching to speak of, but some very mild fatigue. Some mild discomfort at tip of penis which remains. To this point I've noticed no "lesions" or any rash to speak of. I bought some Monistat 7 yesterday and the mild burning and redness around the scrotum was greatly relieved- almost entirely and overnight.
Some background also is that I'd been experiencing some occasional intestinal duress, bloating & gas, occasional fatigue over the last month before this encounter. I drink a lot of beer, and considered I may have some candida issues. I'm also frequented by bad allergies this time of year as well. So, on suspicion that I might have already been having some candida build-up or allergic issues, I suspected I could have, in addition, contracted a yeast infection from this woman, or herpes. For the last 2 days I've been on what amounts to a "candida diet" (no alcohol, caffeine, starches, etc...,). Today I experienced a brief fever, general malaise, and some headaches; the fever being what has concerned me most. Perhaps it may be withdrawal from caffeine and succumbing to some allergies and/or a fungal infection; perhaps candida die-off.
In essence, I plan to get tested for std's, regardless. For HSV-2 I understand that if I have no lesions I may need to wait 2-3 months, which is fine. I'm just going to wait and see what happens next, but I'm wondering if it would be advised to see a doctor now, and/or how to approach my situation. This has been profoundly stressful, to put it mildly, which probably isn't helping matters.
1. Is my situation suggestive of herpes or some other std?
2. Is the likelihood of herpes low or high, given these parameters and the fact it was a single encounter?
3. Given that monostat 7 greatly helped some of the inflammation and redness, I assume this suggests something other than herpes but I'm not ruling anything out. Thoughts?
4. Are yeast infections in men frequently mistook for herpes?
5. When is the soonest I can get checked out for std's with accuracy?
Thank You for your time and compassion.