so how did you get rid of it?
it might not be herpes. i had cuts on the perineum area(between anus and vagina) that looked like papercuts and a red, irritated spot on the clitoris. Got tested and had my hubby tested, we're both negative for Herpes Type 2. Turns out it was from a severe yeast infection. There are a TON of these threads on the womens forum. Some with over 300 entries. Go check it out and get blood tested for your peace of mind.