I would recommend that you see a health care provider for an evaluation to sort this out.
Terri
I had unprotected sex a week ago and had a burning/stinging pain on the head of my penis within 24 hours after sex. its a week later and the pain hasn't went away. I have no visible signs on my genital area and urinating feels fine. Can anyone help me out?
Yes, you are correct. The average time from infection to symptoms is 5.5 days, so you are on the good side of things already!
Terri
Thanks, Terri. She was not on daily medicine, and was experiencing prodomal (sp?) symptoms when we had sex. Saying that I am observing carefully for symptoms is a giant understatement! Over-observation and anxiety-related sensations are probably a bigger risk at this point than missing an obvious symptom. But I am keeping in mind your comment on an earlier thread that if you need a magnifying glass to see it, it probably isn't herpes.
The good news is that it has been about 9 days and I haven't seen any skin symptoms on my mouth or genital region. I had a bad headache for a few days after the encounter, but no fever, so I'd guess the hadache was stress from finding out about her exposure.
Am I right to think that if I am closely checking for symptoms and do not see any unusual skin conditions in the first 2 weeks following exposure (knowing that I tested negative prior to this encounter) that it is highly unlikely I am infected?
I think your risk of infection in this situation is very low. You don't mention of the woman was taking daily medicine or not, but if she was, that makes it even lower. This risk of transmission is likely less than 1% at any given intercourse with an infected person, particularly if you were wisely using condoms for this encounter. If you know that you were negative prior to this encounter, then you need only follow up with a type specific antibody test at 4 months if you feel strongly about it. Since you are aware of her status, and yours as well, you will be observing carefully for symptoms and would likely pick up infection vs. the person who isn't really looking for herpes symptoms.
Until you do test negative, assuming you do, I would recommend that you continue to use condoms with sexual encounters. If you are showing no signs of oral sores, I think kissing is fine.
Terri