Hi,, first time post..I am freaking out,, about a year and half ago i had protected sex with a girl and a few days later she called me up and said she was hurting a little. Right away i was scared to death (i just get scared really fast and get paranoid).. since telling me about it,, i started feeling an irritation on my penis (i think it was more my mind then anything) but none the less i went to a dermatologist who said it was not an std,, i also saw the physician assistant in the office and he said it was nothing to worry,, i wasnt satisfied with them just telling me it was not an std so i went and got tested,, all tests came back negative (thank god),,, now in late october i had had protected sex with two girls at two different times,, and again i just began to think and told myself 'what if these girls had something' and my mind started messing with me. so i again i began getting an irritation on my penis that seemed to shift from the right side to the left side on a daily basis. I also realized that my mother was using something new when drying the laundry in the drier.. I quickly told her to stop and noticed an improvement but im still getting an irritation right under my penis head on the right side and the next day it shifts to the left,,,i ve kind of also noticed that when wearing briefs the stitching in the briefs might be the reason for the irritation,, but i keep telling myself is this herpes,, plz help,,,, i ve tried vaseline,neosporin,bacitration,locoid (kinda helps).. i have never had blisters,, buring when urinating,, or itching,, its more of an irriatation and like i said it switches from side to side.. last night it was on the left side today i wake up and its back on the right side..i am so lost and very depressed. I went to a another dermatologist on tuesday and she examined me and said its not herpes but i asked to take a test and i am waiting on the results,,do i have herpes,, is this anxiety,, plz help