I am frustrated. It took me a long time to be diagnosed with HSV-2. I was tested after an ex-partner said she had come up positive via swab test after a small outbreak (three canker sore-looking lesions) on her labia. I have definitive WB results in hand.
She felt it was I who infected her, which is possible. But I have never had the classic outbreak. So, now that I am positive, I wonder about my outbreak status... as in is this an outbreak or what? It's frustrating because I want to be as responsible as possible when dealing with future partners.
I get red spots on the head of my penis after friction but they seem to go away after 2 days to a week or so. I have very sensitive skin otherwise and have always figured must be the same for all my parts and never really thought much about it. I have had some scaling, but it was very similar to a patch of psoriasis that's on my pubic region. It goes like this: friction, red bumps on penis head only, no irritation or pain, then they go away, sometimes a bit of dry skin is left, sometimes not. However, the spots never really "leave" and are never quite in the same place, though that has happened, too. I have also had similar spots for a long time even before I had several different partners and was married (I know that doesn't mean much with herpes transmission). So, when I had unprotected sex or masturbated I would get these similar spots and red patches way back when I was almost assuredly negative.
Are these herpes sores? Will I ever know for sure if I have a herpes sore or outbreak? Do people have constant, continuous outbreaks? Is that possible?