Hi,
I am a 21yr old female, i recently had what i thought was a cold sore on my lip, i say what i thought because i don't get them very often and so i am unused to the symptoms, i used zovirax on it until the spot was gone, although it didn't blister and didn't hurt as much as i remember cold sores ought to.
I thought i was in the clear once it was gone, as i very very rarely get a reoccurance within a short time, so i felt free to kiss and perform oral sex on my boyfriend (who says he can't ever remember having a coldsore, and thinks he doesn't have the virus).
However the morning after this i felt another tingle in my lip, athough i am unsure whether this is another cold sore or not, as there is no blistering yet, and it is not sore to the touch, it just tingles, i am still afraid that i may have shed the virus to him during oral sex the night before.
What are the risks of him contracting the virus genitally in this case? We have been kissing for longer than one night and he has shown no sign of getting a coldsore.
I am becoming a bit neurotic about the whole thing and it is distracting me from my exams, which are what i think gave me the original coldsore!
Thanks for your help,
Fin