Hi again. I have hsv 1 orally. I am very careful to protect my partner who has no known hsv infections. Because my obs are frequent (one or two a month), I'm always cautions about contact. I check for them daily. Yesterday, I engaged in deep heavy kissing and preformed oral sex. At the time, I had no prodrome symptoms.
About twelve hours or so later, to my horror, I began developing a cold sore (symptoms must have began during the night while I slept). I know transmission is greatest durning an overt ob, but what about just prior to any symptoms? I'm terribly worried for my partner. He's 46, and I know that the likelihood of him already carrying the antibodies is almost better than 50/50, but for the sake of argument, lets say that he's negative. Was this a high risk event for him?
I know there are no real hard statistics, but in your opinion, how much more contagious am I in the hours preceding a ob vs durning prodrome symptoms?
I just hate having this condition. It seems so unpredictable and I worry so much about passing it on! I wonder if I should give up on kissing and oral sex altogether!!